Book I - 1860



Thursday, February the 17th, 1859
This was a day long to be remembered by me and the company I was in. My
dear and noble friend Lou B. was married. I was first bridesmaid. I
walked with W.C. Richardson. Yes this was the day that Lou and O.W. Privett
united hearts and hands. He had a very agreeable time of it, a nice supper
and a jolly crowd. Formed an acquaintance with R.M. Wrightly. Found him
a very interesting gent. The day has passed off very pleasantly.

Saturday the 26th, 1859
This has been a beautiful day, so calm and still, one never knows how to
appreciate fair weather until he has passed through just such a dreary
spell as we have had for this past week. I went to Salisbury today,
done a little shopping, had my photograph taken. Stayed all night with
Mattie C. Will R. & Wright came over and sat until twelve. He had quite
a lively time. T.L.H. came over the next morning.

Friday, March 4th, 1859
This has been a very pleasant day, with me. Fannie C. went to school with
me We went to Capt. Rose's; we had a very pleasant time. I had the exquisite
pleasure of forming an acquaintance with Mr. Goodman, he is rather
"jovial". Dr. Parker came over also; we had some delightful music by Flake.
The evening passed off very pleasantly, the company dispursed about ___a.m.
We were fearful Mr. G. would not get to the valley in time for the cars.

Saturday March the 5th
Fannie, Mary, John and myself rode down to Mrs. P's. Had our fortunes told.
Mine was very good, all liked our fortunes quite well. We spent another very
pleasant evening. Mr. Halford and Mr. Taylor stayed all night and three other
boys. Hary Rose is such good company, so loquacious and witty, the very
life of our social circles. J.H.C.V.C.

Tuesday March the 15
Another one of my associates has promised to love, honor, and obey. So I
will pen the news that to Hymen's altar J.W. Holford led Fannie Currie.
“Like some Lovebird
Without a sonata
I’ll travel down
The single state”

Tuesday, July the 12th, 1859
I rose this morning at two o'clock, took the cars at Hickory Valley, arrived
at College Hill at ten in the morning, found Uncle Gordon quite ill and was
delighted to see me. "A false friend is like a shadow on the sundial, which
appears in fine weather but vanishes at the appearance of a cloud."

College Hill, Saturday, July 23rd, 1859
-I have enjoyed myself very well for the last two weeks, formed several new
acquaintances during my visit at my Uncle's. I am now at the flag station,
waiting for the cars. Uncle is taking a sleep on a bench just opposite me
while I am amusing myself entering notes.

Sunday January the 1st, 1860
New Year's day finds me at Capt. Rose's. Mollie and I spent a very pleasant
morning. In the evening, we started home, called at Mr. Crew's. Kit came
home with us, we had quite a jolly time joking about Leap year, practicing
making speeches. All of our family are together except Sister Kate. A
beautiful moon light night, although very cold. C.C. remained until eight,
then went home. I received a large New Year's gift-a heart. Commenced
reading the testament.

Monday Jan. 2d 1860
This morning I commenced my year's work , am in hopes I'll be able to do
much good. I made two caps. Mr. Lake called this morning. Pa left to
be gone two or three weeks. Sam went home with Mollie R. Think he is
somewhat smitten. Mollie says she has made a speech to him. Ella is
talking extensively of going to Winchester. Think the fervor will soon
wear off. Lila is somev1hat indisposed today.

Tuesday, Jan. the 3d, 1860
This day has passed off very monotonously. We are all very busy sewing.
I am working a binding. We are lonely tonight. I wish it were so that Pa
could be here with us.

Wednesday, J·an. 4th, 1860
We have been quilting. It has been some time since we were all at home
together. After supper, Lila entertained us with dreams of her future
happiness, she imagines she is really in love. May her life be as bright
as her anticipations.

Thursday, Jan. 5th , 1860
In the evening Ella and I took a walk, gathered some holly sprigs. A
beautiful moon light night. Ma and myself took rather a novel wa1k,
talked of love and courtship, as moonlight evenings are favorable for
such. Weather still cold.

Friday, Jan. 6th, 1860
This is my birthday, received a very nice present from Ella; a pair of
kid gloves. I am braiding Ella a cap. It is raining, maybe the ground
will thaw .

Saturday, January the 7, 1860
One of Mr. Dickerson's boys brought us some work. I patched my dress after
supper.

Sunday, January 8th
S.T.A . came and spent the day. After dinner miss Jane N. and the two Misses Lakes came and stayed all night. Mary brought her doll. The children had a nice time playing dolls. We all sat up quite late, enjoyed ourselves finely.

Monday, Jan. the 9th, 1860 _
Sam and I went to Saulsbury, called on Mrs. McGeehee. I bought a few articles. We stayed all night with Sister Kate. I made her a present of a dress. Mr. Beard is somewhat indisposed.

Tuesday, Jan. 10th
A very disagreeable morning, but we started home. We called on Lou P. on
our return, had a very pleasant chat with my dear old friend. Commenced my
dress after supper.

Wednesday, Jan. 11th
Ma & myself are sewing on my dress. Ella is at Hrs. Ham's. This is Lila's
birthday. The weather is somewhat imclement today.

Thursday, Jan. 12
I arose unusually late this morning. S.T. called. We have been joking about
her beau having a chat with her ma. There is to be a wedding near Middleburg
tonight, they have a cold time to celebrate their nuptials, they should love
warmly.

Jan. 13th, 1860
Nothing occurred today worth recording, we are all very busy sewing and cleaning up. Very disagreeable weather.

Saturday the 14th
Bright and early this morn S.T. called and remained a few hours. We are
all busy cooking. Ella's marriage supper-as she speaks of the solemn vowis
tomorrow. Ella took a long cry after supper . I sung the Bride's Farewell
for her.

Sunday, Jan. 15th
Today there was preaching at Van Buren, but moving to the inclemency of the weather we did not attend. This evening at three o'clock Ella was married
to S. T. Avent by Eld. Jonn Chambers. May the blessings of heaven seek this couple. Parsen C. says a beautiful ceremony . There were several gentlemen
present. T.C. & L.L. Moore, Dr. Puckett, Scott , Marshall & Mr. Lake’s
family.

Monday, Jan. l6th/60
We had a rather serious time this morning when Ella was about to take her departure, Sam, Lucie and myself went with her over to Mr. Marshall’s and spend the day. We miss her very much tonight around the family hearth. I sat up sometime after the family had retired, writing some letters, had some to write for Pa and then to write in my journal.

Tuesday, Jan. 17th, 1860
I find it a difficult task to settle down to any work. Late in the evening Lucie, Lila & myself went to Mr. Lake’s. The children had a doll party, they appeared to enjoy themselves very much indeed. Mr. J.M.D. and myself participated in their amusements. Mr. Spinks was present at supper. We have quite a joke on J.M. about it breaking down playing, but he denys the assertion. I heard some news of importance.

Wednesday , Jan. the 18th, 18fi0
I assisted Miss Jane in sewing for the children. The girls went to town and bought two doll dresses, came home and made one. Mrs. Jane and myself had a fine time quarreling about our beau and telling him the rules for Leap Year, one of the gentlemen said he would give his horse any time to make a speech. We are all learning how to make trimming. Retired late.

Thursday, Jan. the 19th, 1860
Mrs. Jane & I marked all the girl's clothing and then spent the remainder of
the day with Mrs. Ham, she is somewhat indisposed. In the evening Ma came
over, we took a look at Mrs. H's new house. Miss J.V. and I walked part of
the way home with Ma, then went to see Laura Moore who was very glad to see
us. Tom came in and spent a few hours with us. We had a serinade.

Friday, Jan. the 20th, 1860
I came home quite early this morning, sewed until noon, then Ma & myself
went over to see Ella. Mr. V., Mrs. Ham, Mrs. Jane & Mary Lake 1.-ient also,
there was quite a merry crowd of us. We had a great deal of sport at Miss
-Mattie 1 s expense, Ma was j eking her about marrying. . But she appeared not
to like the beau Ma picked out for her, says she would not be the second,
much less the third wife of a man.

Saturday, Jan. the 21th, 1860
Spent the morning in writing. Ella sent for her trunks. I am learning a
new stile of embroidery, worked two pieces. Ma spent the evening at Mr.
Lakes, she went to bid farewell to Miss Jean Nabors. I am truly sorry
she is. going to leave our neighborhood, think she will be greatly missed.
Pa has not returned. I am teaching the children.

Sunday, Jan. the 22d, 1860
This has been a beautiful day & the evening is not less fair. How anxious
I ·was to attend church as Dr. Gray was to preach his last sermon at Saulsbury.
But alas! I was doomed to be disappointed. Ma & I spent the day
at Mr. Howard’s, found the family convalescing. In the evening we all
walked over to Mr. Halford's residence. George was my escort. Read and
wrote some after supper.

Monday, Jan. 23, 1860
Ma & myself went to Van Buren shopping. Fell in company with Dr. Rusell
& Jack; we had a great deal of fun with Jack, we then called at Mr. Moore's
and spent the evening.

Tuesday, Jan. 24th
Ella came over and spent the day. S.G.A. came in the evening and stayed
all night, we enjoyed ourselves very well. Sat up quite late.

Wednesday, Jan . 25th
I finished my dress, Ma is scwing for me. A peddler stayed all night here,
entertained us with a short history of his life.

Thursday, the 26
I . finished a piece of embroidery. After dinner went over to bid Ella
farewell. We had quite a lively time. L.D. Marshall came while I was
there, did not bring his lady as we anticipated. Ella & Hiss Hattie walked
a part of the way with me.

Friday, Jan. the 27th, 1860
This morning I bid the loved ones at home adieu, I left in high hopes,
anticipating much pleasure. It is well that we can not know the future.
How many, many happy hours would be blighted if we could gaze into the
dim vista of the future. The Alwise knows what is best. Mattie Chambers
and I went shopping this evening. Will C. came in and had a chat with
me & gave us some music. Mattie and I had a "serinade", we enjoyed it
very much indeed.

Saturday, January the 28th, 1860
I rose this morning at four o'clock, Parson Chambers accompanied me to
the depot, took the cars, arrived in Memphis at nine a.m., formed several
new acquaintances, found Aunt Grider very sick indeed, Cousin Delight
was here when I arrived. Mrs. Wm. Grider is quite a lively lady and her
sister is quite a "butterfly". Augusta Heathman called on us. Cousin
Wm. returned from St. Louis and is quite sick. Bro. Hamilton called and
had prayers. Lou Harten stayed all night with us.

Sunday, January the 29th, 1860
The young ladies and gentlemen went to church. I remained with Aunt.
The dr. and several visitors came in. I felt an inclination to write
to my friends at home but fearing my letter would be rather melancholy,
I will postpone it until a more suitable time. I feel and know that
I am too sensitive, oh would that it were not so, but nature has formed
me as such. The two Mr. Griders and myself and Cousin went to night
meeting. Rather a laughable circumstance occured during services. I read a chapter and retired.

Monday, January the 30th. 1860
I spent the morning very pleasantly. Cousin Will is convalecent, Delight
& Mollie went to town. I did a little sewing in the morning, several
ladies called. I am very much pleased with Mrs. Paston (?) and Mrs.
Moon. John sat in our room a few hours after supper. A very nice gent
called on us. John had made Delight promise not to dip any more snuff.
I am in hopes she nay keep the promise. Oh, my journal, you only will
I confide in, I feel very meloncholy tonight.

Tuesday , January 31st, 1860
Nothing occured worth recording. Aunt is convalescing. Cousin John &
Deilght & I spent a very pleasant evening. John brought some letters
and appeared to be in fine spirits. Raining.

Wednesday, Feb. 1st
Snowed today, we had no visitors. We spent the morning in Cousin Mollie's
room. She is so lively, we had nice time drinking cordial, wine and
port. Delight got pretty merry on the occasion.

Thursday, Feb. the 2d, 1860
I spent the morning sewing. After dinner we took a drive up in town, formed several new acquaintances. Tonight we attended a marriage at the Methodist Church, Miss Scrugs and Mr. Horton. We went home with Lou Horton, formed Mr. Black’s and Mr. Anderson’s acquaintance. Miss Lou and Mr. B are wonderfully enamored with each other. John appeared to be angry with us about disappointing him. I heard a secret.

·Friday, Feb. the 3d, 1860
Mrs. Wright called on Aunt. Cousin Mollie spent the day at her fathers, Cousin
& I dined by ourselves. We had a very pleasant time sewing, reading & talking.
­­______ came home with Mollie, we had a good deal of fun with John.

Saturday the 4th
Delight made us all believe she was going home. I wrote in her album. Lou
Horton came down & stayed all night. We had a very nice time. Sat up quite
late. Lou told me a secret.

Sunday Feb. 5th, 1860
We all went to preaching-heard an excellent sermon from Parson Hamilton. John
& Will went to a funeral after dinner. I took a nap with Cousin Mollie. After
supper we went to preaching at the Methodist Church, there was a very large
congregation out. Mr. B. was paying his attention to Miss Lou. Lou insisted
on me staying all night with her. Said she would give me a nice beau. Aunt
was quite sick.

Monday Feb. the 6th, 1860
In the forenoon I made a bonnet. Mollie and Delight went visiting late in the
evening. I called on Miss Heathman, formed an acquaintance with Misses Neely,
am very much pleased with them. Aunt is quite sick this evening, called in the
physician. J. S. showed us some of his compositions, gave us a glowing description of love. I sat up quite late reading. The moon was in an eclipse.

Tuesday, Feb. the 7th, 1860
I have been rather idle today. Delight went to see the minstrels in company with Cousin Will & lady. I remained at home with Aunt. I felt very melancholy. Aunt does not appear to mend any. Wm. Grider is here. I have come to the conclusion that I would not like city life greatly. Prefer country-begin to wish to see the home folks.

Wednesday the 8th, 1860
This morning Mollie & myself went shopping, formed several new acquaintances. Mr.(?) called on the dentist, had a tooth extracted, found it to be a very severe apparition. In the evening we attended the Opera, I was very much pleased.

Thursday Feb. the 9th, 1860
This morning I cut out my dress and sewed on it. Mollie went out visiting.
Cousin Will went out to his farm and did not return. John went out larking.
Miss Neely and brother called, she is quite a lively lady, expects to leave
the city soon. Had a invitation to a party. Guess I’ll not attend. Aunt
was not well as usual tonight.

Friday the 10th, 1860
Lou Horton spent the day with us. Mr. Smith came to see Aunt. Lou made a
speech to him, he accepted of her proposals, I think he rather plagued her.
I finished my dress. The girls think they have me wonderfully quizzed about
Delight marrying but they are very much mistaken. Aunt was taken very sick
in the night, sent for the Dr. She fainted in the night. We sat up with her.

Saturday, Feb. 11th, 1860
This was the day that I set to go home but Aunt is much worse, and I will
remain until she takes a change. Dr. called this morning, says Aunt has a
return of the feavor. I am fearful she will never recover, but I think she
is prepared for death. But if it was the Lord's will I would be happy to
think she could be raised from her bed of affliction. Mrs. Small came to see
Aunt, she is such a kind lady to the sick.

Sunday Feb. the 12th, 1860
The Dr. visited Aunt and pronounced her better. I spent the morning in
reading. Miss Bettie S. called this evening. I find her a very agreeable
girl, she brought Delight a bridal present as she had heard she was going
to marry. Cousin Will & lady to a ride. We went to evening preaching at
the Methodist church. Parson Hamilton preached an excellent sermon. Delight
& I sat up most of the night with Aunt. I read a very interesting story.

Monday, Feb. the 13th, 1860
Parson Mullins visited Aunt this morning. I am very much pleased with him.
He prays an excellent prayer. This is a very gloomy morning, raining so
constantly, calculated to make one feel melancholy. I received a letter
from Ma which gave great pleasure but still I was compelled to take a cry.
There is ever something to cast a gloom upon my brightest hopes and
anticipations.

Tuesday, February the 14th, 1860
Still raining, will again be thwarted in my plans as I expected to have
gone shopping. This is Valentine's day but I guess I'll not send any.
John says he' s going to send one to each of his sweethearts. After supper
I packed my trunk. Delight and me had a long talk, feel rather sad as this
is my last night in Memphis. We retired late after looking at a most
beautiful picture.

Wednesday Feb. the 15th, 1860
This morning I rose at four, bade all the family adieu, John accompanied
me to the depot, to my sorrow, the cars had left. I returned and stayed
until evening. Mrs. Aston called, Uncle Wm. Gordon came to see Aunt and
he came up the road with me as far as the Junction. I had a splendid time
on the cars, had company with several of my old acquaintances. Parson
Chambers met me at the depot. Mattie & I chatted until quite late.

Thursday, Feb. 16th, -1860
T.C.M. called on Mattie & myself. I spent the morning very pleasantly,
we took a long walk, an hour or longer. In the evening Sam came after
me, I called on Hrs. Hancock, then home. They were all overjoyed to
see me at home once more. We had a great deal of news to communicate
to each other. Ma & I did not retire until twelve p.m.

Friday, Feb. 17th, 1860
Ma & I called on Ella this morning. Ella is going to housekeeping, showed
us her table furniture. The rain began to fall & we borrowed an unberalla
and came home. I cut out a garment & commenced sewing.

Saturday the 18
Clear again, S.T. & Ella came over to see us, curled my hair, very becoming.
Sam went to a debate.

Sunday the 19th, 1860
Pa came home this morning. Sam, Ella & Mat came by and went to church, there
were a good many out. Mrs. Rose, Mollie & Flake came home with us & took
dinner. Henry Beard came & brought the glad tidings that I had a namesake
at his house. I was delighted to learn it. I am laying bright plans for
little Laura's future. Joe M. called on me this evening, we had quite a
jolly time. I wrote three letters and retired.

Monday, Feb. the 20th , 1860
Ma went over to see Sis. Kate. Pa to the Junction. I went to see Mrs.
House, found her quite sick-had a long chat with Mrs. Ham. I went to
Mr. Martin's store, while there I heard a great deal of news. Mr. M. &
Esq. H. carried me high about a valentine they accused me of sending.
Ella & Miss Mat spent the evening with me. I spent an hour looking over
my "old letters" which I found to be very interesting.

Tuesday, Feb. the 21st, 1860
Pa left this morning. I am feeling very badly, fearful I’ll have a spell.
of sickness. Mr. Lake spent the day with us, had a great deal to say
about a valentine he received, accuses me of sending it. Rained all the
evening, the sunset was clear. We all feel rather lonely, as neither of
our parents are with us. All the children said a lesson to me before we
retired.

Wednesday, Feb. the 22d, 1860
I sewed all the morning. Harriet Howard & brother came to see us. Ma
came home about one o’clock. Dr. Puckett called on me this evening- says
he begins to feel rather old, don’t like the idea of being an old
bachelor. Sam came to see Joe M.

Thursday, Feb. the 23d
Lucie went to Van & brought out two rolls of domestic. I done some
repairing and made Lila a dress & wrote to Mr. Wall. Do not think
I am able to teach school yet.

Friday, Feb. the 24th, 1860
I have been very busy, made t\W garments. Nothing occured worth recording.
My cold is still very bad.

Saturday the 25th
Mr. Dickerson & John Thornton (?) called this morning. Pa came home. Mr.
Ham came out to see us. Ella came over and spent a few hours with us.
Sam went home with her and went to the debate.

Sunday, Feb. the 26th, 1860
Pa, Sam & myself went to preaching at Saulsbury, heard an excellent sermon
from Dr . Gray. Saw many of may friends and old schoolmates. Stopped a
few moments at Prewitts. Lou was very glad to see me, not more so than
I was to see her. We had company most of the way home. went to see Ella
& Sam, we had a very pleasant time, they walked part of the way with us.

Monday Feb. the 27th, 1860
Ma & myself commenced the task of making a half dozen shirts. In the
afternoon we went to see Mrs. Russell, a very pleasant visit, then to
see Mrs. Moore, Found her sick. Mrs. Ham was there. We had a long chat about her particular friend.

Tuesday Feb. 28th
Ella spent the morning with us, took Lila home with her. Joe M. called in,
we had a jolly confab about a love letter I found, he says he did not write
it.

Wednesday, Feb. the 29th, 1860
It has been raining most of the day. I received a note from Ella. She sent
for her cow. Ma and I have been sewing. I feel somewhat indisposed this
evening. Ma made me some cough medicine.

Thursday March the 1st
Sam received quite a quiz rather late for Valentines. I heard that I was
to be married today. Went to see Mollie Rose. Formed an acquaintance
with Mr. Wm. Rose & lady, was very much pleased with Mr. Rose.

Friday March the 2d, 1860
We spent the morning very pleasantly. Mollie gave me some shrubbery.
Sam helped to get it up. After dinner we all went fishing. We did not
have very good luck as it was so windy. Mollie & I concluded we would
try our "luck" at fishing on dry land. I caught one fish that was
worth having. Mollie and Willie came home with me, found all well at
home. Harriet Howard called awhile. We looked for company, but was
disappointed in receiving visitors.

Saturday March the 3rd, 1860
Mollie & I started out visiting this morning, we took a long ride, then
went to see Ella & Mrs. Marshall, came home to dinner, spent an hour
or so, then went to see Mrs. Moore, they had been to the shore. I
received two letters. When we again returned home we found J. Lake
who had come after us, we went and stayed all night with Miss Jane &
Margaret, we had quite a nice time. Joe McDaniel performed on the
violin. We showed our love letters and had fine sport over them.

Sunday, March the 4th, 1860
Mr. Lake and Mr. McDaniel insisted on us going to church but we did not
have on our Sunday rigging, so we did not go. The gentlemen went and
returned about one o'clock. We claimed their watches for not bringing
some ladies home with them. Miss Jane & the girls went back to Saulsbury
and we came home, the gents with us-found Ella & Mr. Avent at home.
We had a very lively chat, Mollie went home, did not find her purse.
Mr. A. says we cannot put out a reward for our hearts.

Monday, March the 5th, 1860
Wrote some letters. Sam went to Van Buren. Raining. Nothing occured
worth recording. No visitors.

Tuesday the 6th
Ella came over early this morning. Ma & I spent the day at the Spinks.
Mrs. S. showed us how the sewing machine operated. we are very much
pleased with it. Margaret Harris was there, had commenced her school. We had a long chat together. I stayed all night with Ella. Had a good laugh at Ella & Sam.

Wednesday, March the 7th
I came by Ella's garden with her, she insisted on me remaining longer with
her. Ma is gardening. I have been assisting her some-I also worked in
the flower garden, we have some beautiful flowers in bloom. Spring has
come again in her most beautiful apparel. How I love to watch the budding
flowers. I think I'll soon have variety enough to make a beautiful bouquet.

Thursday, March the 8th, 1860
Raining nearly all day. We are quite busy sewing, nothing occured worth
recording. I am teaching Lila, she is learning very well.

Friday, March the 9th
Ella came over and spent a few hours with us, she is looking very well.
Martin Dickenson came this evening after his sewing. Late in the morning
Ma & I walked to Van Buren. We went to the store, then to see Mrs. Moore.
We had a good deal of sport after the girls got out their quilt. J.M. passed by.

Saturday, March 10th, 1860
I spent the day with Ella, commenced lamp mat. ·Ella & Mrs. M. were
joking Ma about their beaus. Pa returned, he is not very well, he gave
me a glowing description of a fast young widower.

Sunday, March the 11th
Ma & I went to Saulsbury to preaching, then to Mr. Beard's. Little Laura
is very pretty. Mr. McGee and lady called on us, they are very lively,
have a beautiful little girl. Retired late.

Monday, March the 12th, 1860
We left Mr. Beard’s early in the morning, took dinner at Mr. Dickerson’s, got bord for Lucie, called at the Institute. We then went to Saulsbury and done our shopping and then came home.

Tuesday the 13th
We found one of our cows dead this morning. Ma & I spent the day at Mr.
Moore's. Worked on Laura's silk dress. Mrs. Ham spent the day there too.
Had a very jolly time.

Wednesday March the 14th, 1860
Ella spent the morning with us. We are very busy preparing Lucy to go to
school. I feel very badly today. Wrote a letter.

Thursday, March the 15th
Sam went to Saulsbury, did not return until quite late, brought a letter
& paper. We have been very busy finishing Lucie’s dress. No visitors today,
I am getting rather lonesome, times are so dull. I wish our neighbors were more sociable.

Friday, March the 16, 1860
I finished Lucie's dress, heard Lila's lesson, and after dinner Ma & I
went to see Ella, she is looking very badly, took a chill. She thinks
Lucy had better stay at home this session.

Saturday the 17th
Heard the death of Geo. Mauldin. Ma, Lucie & Lila went to preaching. I remained at home and kept house. Mr. M. was here to dinner. In the
afternoon I read and then painted a small piece. We spoke of going to
night meeting, but Sam could not go.




Sunday, March the 18th, 1860
We went to preaching out at Van Buren. Parson Valentine preached, the first
time I have heard him, there was quite a crowd out, some came in late, from
the burying. I was very much surprised to see Dr. Puckett among the crowd.
He had just returned from visiting his jularkey (?), he dined with us.
Sam Rose was talking about having a picnic. Joe McDaniel called on us this
evening, took tea with us, Sam went to preaching with Joe.

Monday, March the 19th, 1860
This morning I commenced my school with two scholars, Lucie & Lila. I am
very anxious about them, hope they will learn fast, think it is better than for them to go off to school.
I commenced working my ottomans today, wrote a letter.

Tuesday the 20th
Ella came over and spent an hour or two, I went to see Mrs. Horn, she is
quite lovely, called on Mrs. Russell in the afternoon, saw Mr. Wheeler,
stayed alnight with Laura. We sat up quite late. Tom gave us some music.

Wednesday the 21s·t, 1860
Ma went to see Mr. Howard, thinks he is some better. I am teaching the
children and working on my ottomans all the leisure I have. I have been
suffering with the neuralgia today.

Thursday the 22d
I have been very busy all day with my embroidery. Nothing has occured of
interest, no visitor, times are so dull. I wish something would transform
to disturb the monotony.

Friday March the 23rd, 1860
I have read but very little and written comparitively nothing this week.
I must devote more time to my literary pursuits, but I am always so busy
sewing, I do wish I had a machine that I might devote more time to the
cultivation of my mind. I assisted Ma this evening in the culinary
department. We had good luch with our cake. Joy, great joy! I have
finished my ottaman.

Saturday March the 24th
This morning was so very cold and the wind so high that I thought we had
better postpone our long anticipated fishing party to some more suitable
day. Mrs. McGee, Mr. McDaniel and several others came by from the picnic, which
came near a being' a failure, thought they had quite a joke on me
but I turned it on Mr. Mc. I went home with Margaret. We sat up quite
late and had a long, long chat about the match making machine.

Sunday March the 25th, 1860
Ma & I took a long walk and had a long chat of course. In the afternoon
we went to Mr. Howard’s, he is some better, they had a great deal of
company. Harriet came home with us and stayed all night with Lucie. I
wrote several letters, one to Whiteville. I have been feeling very sad
today.

Monday, March the. 26th, 1860
I spent the morning in sewing, in the afternoon Ha, Lucie & myself went
fishing, we did not catch anything, we then went to Mrs. ________.
I had my fortune told, it was a very good one, good luck, much pleasure,
fine beaux, marry this year. Mr. Avent & Ella came over this evening,
stayed all night. Pa came back from the Junction, we sat up quite late, had
a jolly time.

Tuesday, March the 27th, 1860
Pa left this morning. Ma and myself spent the day with Mrs. Chairs. Sophia
showed us her fur cape, loaned me her ottaman to work by. I finished my
lamp mat, Mrs. C. was very much pleased with it, had a short chat with Ragin.
Sophia and I gathered a nice bouquet, we enjoyed ourselves very well.
Mrs. C. and Sophia walked part of the way with us, she joked me about her
neighbor.

Wednesday, March the 28th, 1860
We found Joe the horse quite sick this morning, we are fearful he will
make an exit. Sam went to Van and got some medicine and doctored him,
he is some better this evening. I made me a silk cap and a head dress.

Thursday March 29
I have been attending to domestic affairs, made my namesake a dress.
Ella spent the evening with us, I went home with her and stayed all night.

Friday, March the 30th, 1860
I commenced my ottaman this morning, have been sewing very constantly.
Ma is gardening, I assisted some in the late evening.

Saturday, March the 31st
Ella & Mr. Avent called on their way to Saulsbury. I am thinking they'll
have a disagreeable time as their is some appearance of rain. I gardened
awhile this morning, made two garments, thus ends the first Spring month,
and what have I done and of what do we omit? Would that I could do more.

Sunday, April the 1st, 1860
I spent the forenoon in reading and writing. Received a letter from Delight
She appears to be in fine spirits. Miss Justice and Miss Howard gave us a
short call. Ma and I took a long walk.

Monday, April the 2d
Ella spent the morning with us, told us the news from Saulsbury. I made
Ma a fine bonnet, I think it does very well for my first. Helped Ma garden,
I like the business very well.

Tuesday, April the 3d, 1860
I have been very busy all day working on my ottoman, feel very near worn out,
close confinement does not agree with me.

Wednesday the 4th
This has been a very pleasant day with me. I received four letters and my
magazines. Mr. Ham gave us a call this morning. Mollie Rose & Willie
spent the day with us, we had a very pleasant time, she told me a great
deal of news. I finished my ottaman.

Thursday, Apr. the 5th, 1860
I spent the morning in domestic affairs-made a garment. Ella spent the
evening with us, Ma & I walked part of the way back with her. Reading
the Ladies Book[1].

Friday the 6th
I spent the morning working in the flower yard, I find it very pleasant
exercise. Made some tissue flowers, think they look very well for the first.
Pa gave us quite an agreeable surprise in coming home a day sooner than we
expected.

Saturday the 7th 1860 ~
I attended a grand fish fry at Anderson’s mill, there was quite a crowd
out, old folks, young folks and children all came and enjoyed life finely,
the gents had previously caught a great quantity of fish, provision was
plentiful. The gents displayed their gallantry, and the ladies their most
bewitching smiles. Conversation flowed freely intermingled with wit and
wisdon, all went merry as a wedding bell.

Sunday April the 8th
I spent the morning in reading, wrote three letters. This is a very
lonesome morning . Ella & Mr. Avent spent the evening with us. We
enjoyed ourselves very well reading. Ella and I 'took a walk, had a
long chat.

Monday the 9th
Pa left this morning. I wrote two business letters. We carded bats and put in my quilt. Read Godey’s Ladie’s books which are very interesting this year.

Tuesday, Apr. the 10th, 1860
Ella came over arid spent the morning, heard the death of Mary Harris
Previtt. Oh, what a shock it must have been for her parents. I do
truly sympathise with her bereaved husband and family. She died very happy.
Short and happy was her life. Farewell Mary! No more will I
behold that happy loving face. "Thy life \vas a happy one, none knew her
but to love her" can truly be said of thee! I hope that thou art gone
where no tears are ever shed, where parting will be known no more.

Wednesday, Apr. the 11th, 60
Lucie is sick today, I read a good deal in Arthur's magazine[2]. I feel
very sad today. I have been thinking so much of Mary who died in a
strange country away from the friends of her youth. I have heard of
six or seven other deaths, Hr. Fentrell, Mr. Cox, Pankie and several
others.

ThursCiay the l2th
We finished my quilt, Ma and Lucie spent the evening with Ella . Miss
Mattie Marshall left this neighborhood today.

Friday, Apr. the 13th, 1860
I done some sewing and read awhile. Mr. Lake and Bogin Chairs spent
the evening with us, we had quite a pleasant time. We joked Mr. L. about
his new sweetheart.

Saturday the 14th
We went to preaching, Parson Savage preached. In the evening Ma and I
went to see Mr. Howard, found him convelescing. Had the pleasure of
conversing with our neighbor Mr. Wheeler. He is quite an interesting
man. I made some nice pickles.

Sunday, Apr. the 15th, 1860
Sam and I went to preaching , there was quite a crowd out . We did not get
home until three o'clock. Ma and Lucie went to see Ella, she is quite sick.
I was so much fatiqued, I remained at home and read all the evening.

Mon. Apr. the 16th
Ella sent for me this morning, so I went and took her a nice bouquet, she was
very much pleased with it. Mr. Avent went to Middlebury. Ella had a very
severe pain at the heart. Mrs. M. and I made some cakes. Ella was better
when I left.

Tuesday, April the 17th, 1860
We had a rain last night, everything looks so beautiful this morning, all
things appear to be refreshed. I notice that we have twelve different
kinds of flowers. The vegetables are growing finely. I was disappointed
this evening, started to see Lou, the rain began to fall and I had to
return. I will endeavor to bear all small disappointments with cheerfulness.
We received a note from Ella, she is convalescing. I faced two dresses.
Read some in Godeys, Lila is learning to knit and studying also. Sam is
breaking his horse.

Wednesday, Apr. the 18th, 1860
Raining again this morning. Pa took a notion after dinner to start out
again. Ma spent the evening with Ella. I am piecing on my quilt.

Thursday the 19th
I had a chill last night and feel very badly today. I am hardly able to
sew. I read several pieces in Arthur's magazine.

Friday, 20
I have performed a sad task today, in looking over the letters of my
departed friend Mary. Ella and Sam stayed all night. I made a thorn
basket. Tom Puckett sat until bedtime.

Saturday Apr. the 21st, 1860
I have been feeling very sad today. I made Sam a neck handkerchief. Mr.
Lake spent the evening with us. Received Godey's magazine and a letter.
Sun::lay the 22d
I have been sick all day. Pa came home, has bought Sam a fine mule. I read
most of the day.

Monday the 23d
I have been confined to my bed all day. Lucie went to see Ella, she is
sick. I have been piecing on a quilt for my little namesake Laura Beard.

Tuesday, Apr. the 24th, 1860
This morning as I was so much better I thought I'd go to see my friend
Lou Previtt. Found her well and quite happy, we spent a very happy .day .
Took a long walk and talked of old times .

Wednesday, Apr. the 25
Lou gave me some cedars, we went to see Mrs. Ann Previtt, she is in a great
deal of trouble . I gathered a nice bouquet, bade them all goodbye and
started home. I had been home but a very short time when I took a severe
spell of the neuralgia. Pa sent for medicine and I was soon relieved.

Thursday, Apr. the 26th, 1860
I was some better today though very weak. I have been sewing some,
finished Laura's quilt. We planted the flower seeds. Ma spent ·the
evening with Ella.

Friday, Apr. the 27th
I have not been able to sit up any today. Mrs. Ham spent the evening with
us, she is in fine spirits. Thinks I am very industrious to sit up in the
bed and sew.

Saturday the 28th
I took a ride this evening, called at Mr. Moore's, got some papers and
a book out of the P.O. Ma and I sat up quite late.

Sunday, Apr. the 29th, 1860
I spent the morning in reading. Mr. Avent and Ella spent the evening with
us. Ella and I took a long walk. I told her a secret. Mr. Lake took
supper with us, he was very lively.

Monday, Apr. the 30th
I sewed on my quilt, Ella spent the morning with us, whe is looking much
better.

Tuesday, May 1st
Ma and I quilted Laura's crib quilt. This has been a most beautiful May
day where shall I be one year from today?

Wednesday, May 2d, 1860
Pa and I went to Saulsbury, I bought my summer goods, there were a good
many ladies shopping. We went out to Mr. Beard's and stayed all night,
found them all well, we sat up quite late.

Thursday the 3d
This morning we started for home, stopped in town, made a few purchases
and came on home. I was very much wearied, walking so far in the heat of
the day. I repaired my parasol in the evening. Ma was very well pleased
at the selection I had made.

Friday, May the 4th, 1860
Lila and myself spent the day at Cap. Roses, we enjoyed ourselves very
much indeed. Mollie and I had a long confab. I learned Mrs. Rose how to
knit the lamp mats. They all insisted on me staying all night and going
fishing tomorrow.

Saturday the 5
I spent the morning with Ella. In the evening I went to Mrs. Chairs, spent
a very pleasant time. We gathered a nice bouquet, took tea with them and
then returned home. Bagin came part this way with me.

Sunday, May the 6th, 1860
We went to preaching out at Canaan, Mr. Lake went with us, heard an excellent
sermon from. Walker. Saw many of my old friends, we took dinner with Mr.
Bailey's family. I felt at home to be with so many of my old friends. Joe
Mc. went home with Miss B. We took a look at Mr. R.'s new house, had
a pleasant ride home. Mr. Lake did not take tea with us. I feel somewhat
wearied after my long trip .

Monday, May the 7th, 1860
P.B. Chairs came after me this evening. Sophia was very glad to see me. Mrs.
C. had a great deal to tell me about our neighbor. I'll spend the week with
Mrs. C.

Thursday the 8th
We cut out Sophia's dress. Bagin gave us some music, we spent a very pleasant
evening. Bagin read for me while we sewed. I made a nice bouquet. We
sat up quite late.

Wednesday, May the 9th, 1860
We spent the morning sewing. Mr. Lake spent the· evening with us, he took
tea with us, he was very lively indeed, we discussed the subject of "love
at first", the majority was against me. We presented Mr. L. with a nice
bouquet.

Thursday the 10th
Mrs. Ham and Laura Moore spent the day with us. I cut out Laura's dress.
Mrs. H. was very loquacious, read some letters. Mrs. and Miss Tantrell (?)
stayed all night.

Friday, May the 11th , 1860
This has been an eventful day. Mr. Lake came by and one and all went to
Mr. Spinks. We dined sumptious1y on fish. In the evening we went strawberry
hunting, came back by Mr. ____ and the company robbed a beehive,
ate plenty of honey, then returned home after walking about five miles.
Margaret Harris went home with us. Mr. Lake stayed until bedtime. We
had a nice time, retired late.

Saturday, May the 12th, 1860
I cut out Sophia's dress, had a pleasant chat with P.B.C. We took a walk
in the evening and listened to our echo, had some nice strawberrys .

Sunday the 13th
We went to preaching at Saulsbury, heard two excellent sermons from Mr.
Carlwell. There was a very large crowd out at Saulsbury. Saw many of
my old friends and schoolmates. I ·wore my new dress.

Monday the 14th , 1860
Pa came after me this morni11g. Bagin and John came part of the way with
us, found Ella here. Mr. Lake spent the morning with us.

Tuesday, Hay 15th
I went fishing, there were but a few at the picnic, but we enjoyed ourselves
finely. The crowd carne by home with me, we then called on Mrs. Chairs,
had some fine music by Miss Spinks, stayed all night at Mrs. Spinks .

Wednesday, May the 16th
I came home this morn and made my bonnet, had a long chat with Ella.
Retired early.

Thursday the 16th
This has been an eventful day with me. I was very much surprised at the
appearance of John Cross who came to see me. While he was here Mr. Spinks
and Chairs came after me, I remained until Mr. C. left and then went to
Mr. Lakes to make my excuse for not attending the dinner.

Friday May the 18th, 1860
Mr. L. came by and insisted on me going strawberrying. We dined with
Mrs. Spinks. In the evening we all went to gather the delicious fruit.
Most of the girls had a beau.

Saturday the 19th
Ella and Mr. Avent came by for me to go to preaching. Chambers preached.
I had company home. Quite a crowd of little girls came to see us this
evening, Ma cut out a dress for Miss Florence Anderson.

Sunday May the 20th, 1860
Lucie, Sam and myself went to preaching. Parson Savage preached, there
was quite a crowd out. Ella and Sam dined with us. I read several pieces
in Godey.

Monday the 21st
I spent an hour with the children and their books. Mr. Lake spent part
of the day with us, he is in fine spirits. We read and chatted and
passed the morning away very pleasantly comparing dates. Went to see Mr.
Mc. in the eve.

Tuesday, Hay the 22d, 1360
Ma and I spent the day with Mrs. Ham, we had a very agreeable time, called
on Mrs. Mastin in the evening. Mr. M. had a great deal to tell me about
my beau and spoke a good word for him. There was a picnic at Greer's Pond.
I don't think I ever saw the young folks in such a notion of frolicking.
More courting than I ever heard, our new star had twenty beaux one day.
I'm thinking there will not be many old maids and bachelors in our
neighborhood.

Wednesday, May the 23d, 1860
I spent two hours this morning teaching my pupils. Was in hopes we were
going to have a rain, was disappointed. Ella spent the evening with us.
The children gathered us some mulberrys-walked with Ella, gathered wild
flowers.

Thursday the 24th
The children had very good lessons, spent the remainder of the day sewing.
Nothing of interest occured today, I am lonely this week, no visitors.

Friday, May the 25/60
Spent the morning sewing, wrote a letter, attended to domestic affairs.
Pa came home.

Saturday the 26th
We spent a very pleasant day. Mrs. Wm. Rose and Mollie spent the day with
us. Mrs. R. is such a very interesting little lady. Ella came over to see
the ladies. I made some sweet pickles. Received news from head quarters
this evening.

Sunday, May the 27th, 1860
This has been a long lonesome day with me. Was disappointed about going
to church. Sam went after his mule that got out. Wrote some.

Monday, May the 28th
Mr. Lake spent the morning with us, talking of another picnic. We had an
agreeable surprise. Aunts Grider and Gordon came to see us, I was so much
rejoiced to see them, they appeared to be much wearied. Retired quite late.

Tuesday, May the 29th
Ella came over to see our Aunts and spent the morning. We had a great
deal to talk about, Mr. Lake called to let us know the fry was a failure.

Wednesday the 30th
We talked, walked and laughed. Ella and Sam came over and took supper
and sat until bedtime. Lila appeared in full bloomers, quite a novel
appearance. Aunt is pursuading me to go to Oxford with her. Retired
late.

Thursday, May the 31st, 1860
Aunts Gordon and Grider and myself spent the day with Ella, we had a
very pleasant time. I made my dress skirt.

Friday, June the 1st
I finished the white dress today, and a stocking. Taught the children.
We are needing rain very much indeed. Ella spent the evening with us.
The old folks told some amusing anecdotes.

Saturday, June the 2d, 1860
Esq. Anderson and Hr. Lake called this morning. Aunt Gordon says she
has a good joke on me. I cut out my dress and sewed on it.

Sunday the 3d
Sam, Mr. L. and myself went to Canaan today, heard two excellent sermons
from Parson Walker. Took dinner at church, called at Mr. _______. The
Miss Baileys were there. Mr. U. was in fine spirits. Mssrs. Chairs, Capers
and Higgs called on me during my absence.

Monday, June the 4th, 1860
Mrs. Moore and Mrs. Ham came to see us this evening. We had an early
supper and Ma and Aunt Gordon went over to see Ella. Aunt Grider and
I took a long walk, she was asking about my pretended.

Tuesday the 5th
We all spent the day at Mrs. Moore's, we had a jolly time, in the evening
we went down to Mrs. Ham's. She gave us some music. Tom, Trip and I went
to the plum tree. Tom gave Aunt some plums.

Wednesday, June the 6th, 1860
Aunts Grider and Gordon took leave of us, and started for Oxford. Sam
went with them to the station, they will not take the cars until
evening. Ella remained with me sometime after they left. Felt sad.
and lonely.

Thursday the 7th
Was disappointed about going  to the examination. Pa had the well cleaned
out. I went over to see Ella and spent the evening. Set the children
to knitting after they said their lessons.

Friday, June the 8th, 1860
The rain has come at last. We started to the examination, was caught
in a shower, called at a house, dried and went on, got there late. What
I heard was very good. Prof. Loomis gave a short lecture. Saw many of
my old school mates. Received a letter.

Saturday the 9th
Mr. Lake and Mrs. Nabor's family spent the evening with us. Mrs. N. is
very loquacious. Raining again.

Sunday, June the 10th
Sam and I went to preaching at Saulsbury. Stopped at the Methodist Church,
heard part of the sermon , then to the Presbyterian Church, dined with Mrs.
McGee. Mr. Lake and family came by in the evening.

Monday the 11th
This has been a long lonesome day. In the evening Mrs. McGee and the
Misses Lakes came over and stayed all night. We read and talked until
quite late. We had a very hard rain in the night, some hail.

Tuesday, June the 12th
I was agreeably surprised by the arrival of Cousin J.S. Grider who arrived
here about one o'clock this evening. Ella came over to see Cousin expecting
to see his wife, we walked part of the way home with her.

Wednesday the 13th
We went to the plum orchard. Ma returned from Oxford this evening. We
were all very much rejoiced to see her after her long absence. Uncle
Gordon is in very bad health.

Thursday June 14th, 1860
John worked awhile in the flower garden. Mr. Beard carne after Sallie,
John and I took a very pleasant ride this evening. John has been telling
me of his Mattie.

Friday the 15th
Bright and early this morning John bade us farewell and he and Sam started
for the station. Ma spent the day with Ella who is quite sick. This has
been one of the most lonesome days I ever experienced.

Saturday, June the 16th
Sewed most of the day. Received a new ladies book. Read several pages.

Sunday 17
Went to preaching at Van Buren. Parson Savage preached. Had a visitor.
Ella is convalescing.

Monday the 18th
The music school commenced today. I am very much pleased with the teacher,
Miss Rapp. Good many persons present.

Tuesday the 19th, 1·860
Misses Lake, Spinks, Harris and Moore spent the day with me, in the evening
Mssrs. Moore and Spinks came over. I went home with the girls, took supper
at Lake's.

Wednesday the 20th
Spent the day at Van Buren, took another music lesson, but no music in my
soul tonight. I feel melancholy tonight.

Thursday, June the 21st
Repaired two of my old dresses. Received a letter from J.S.G., coming
up tomorrow. I went over to see Ella, she is quite sick.

Friday the 22
I spent the day at Van Buren. We are getting along very well with our
lessons. Called on _______, formed an acquaintance with Mr. E. Chairs,
think he is smitten with Miss Nannie. Our cousins did not come, sadly
disappointed was I.

Saturday, June the 23
Attended a picnic at Anderson's Mill, quite a crowd out, much enjoyment,
plenty to eat, young folks were very loquacious. Harris and Previtt
came home with us. Ella spent the day with Ma.

Sunday the 24th
This has been a long lonesome day with me. I read, wrote, talked and
walked. Had visitors. Ma and Lucie went to see Miss Jane Nabors. I

wrote a long letter to one of my friends.

Monday, June the 25th, 1860
Went to school this morning, had a good lesson, we had a very pleasant
time eating our dinner, went by Mr. L's. Lizzie came home with me.

Tuesday, the 26th
Mrs. Arbuckle, Miss Jane Nabors and Ella spent the day with us, the time
passed off very pleasantly. Prof.Gibson dined with us, he is very
loquacious, and an "old" bachelor which makes him doubly interesting. I
went home with the ladie's. He practiced our lessons over before retiring.

Wednesday, June the 27th
Did not go to school until after dinner. Rained-I could not get home,
stayed at Mrs. Moore's. Went over to the Doctor's with Laura to have
a tooth drawn,

Thursday the 28th
I came home, found Pa here arid sick. In the evening I went over to Mr.
L's to practice my lesson.

29th
Friday morning, I went to Van today, took my lesson, then to the Junction to
an examination, attended a tableau at night, was very much pleased. Saw
many of my friends. Went to Mr. Naber's.

Saturday, June the 30th, 1860
I left Mr. Naber's this morning after spending a very pleasant evening.
Arrived at home at eleven o'clock a.m. Spent the evening patching and
darning. Finished my stockings.

Sunday, July the 1st
Went to Torn Previtt's funeral, a masonic procession, there was quite a
large crowd out. The day was oppressively warm. Miss Spinks bade me
farewell. Found Ma quite sick when I returned. I spent the evening in
reading.

Monday, July the 2d, 1860
Went to school this morning, had good lessons. I came home sick, did
not sleep much during the night.

Tuesday the 3d
I was confined to my bed all day, read most of the time.

Wednesday the 4th
Went to school, had a good deal of company, two gents from Saulsbury.
We had a very interesting time, conversing and listening to the music.

Thursday the 5th, 1860
I received a nice present this morning, a music book. The name of the
donor is written down on the tablets of memory. Went to Harris' to
practice.

Friday, July the 6th
Went to school this morning, found the scholars in fine spirits. Aunt
Hobson came by Van Buren about one o'clock. Mr. B. carne with her. Ella
carne over in the evening, we had a very pleasant time. Retired late.

Saturday, July the 7th
I spent the morning sewing, in the evening I went to Van to practice,
returned by Ella's. Pa has gone to Saulsbury.

Sunday the 8th
I did not go to preaching. Ella spent the day with us. I am reading
the "Youth's Cabinet[3]". Mr. Avent came over.

Honday the 9th
Eliza m:~nt with me to school. Tom Moore and Dr. Russell came over and
had a chat. Aunt and Ma met us. Pa is gone, heard of the death of Hrs.
Falls.

Tuesday, July the 10th, 1860
Ma and I went to Saulsbury shopping, dined with Mrs. Hancock, called on
Mrs. Ward, she is convalescing. Saw Hr. and Mrs. Nabors,

Wednesday the 11th
All the Van ites are in great excitement about one neighbor getting married.
It is really amusing to hear them.

Thursday the 12th
I went to Van in the evening to practice. Dr. R. and Mrs. Hoare came down
to Mr. Ham's. They joked me a good deal about the current report, which
is all false. Ella was fooled.

Friday, July the 13th, 1860
Miss Nannie is quite sick, had a chill, we made her a dress. Mr. Lake
and Chairs visited the school this evening.

Saturday the 14th
I finished my dress. Mr. Randolph, Mrs. and Mrs. Griggs called
on us this evening. I was sick during the night.

Sunday the 15th
We went to preaching. Parson Savage spoke. There were a good many out.
I imagine my journal is becoming very dull and uninteresting.

Monday, July the 16th, 1860
Went to school today, the Misses Moores spent the day with Mrs. Ham,
quite a privalege to converse with a young lady "just from college".

Tuesday the 17th
I spent the morning very pleasantly with Aunt and Ma-went to practice
in the evening, called to see Ella, we had a rain. Aunt and Ma went
to meet me.

Wednesday the 18th
Went to school, Sophia did not come, Miss Nannie is going to give
vocation. We had quite a jolly time.

Thursday, July the 19th
I made a cape and assisted Ma. Stayed at home all day. Nothing of
interest occured.

Friday the 20th
We have plenty of nice melons. Went to Van to practice. Heard plenty
of news about my marriage.

Saturday the 21st
Spent the morning sewing. Read Godey. Mr. Avent had a house raising.
Sat up quite late at night reading.

Sunday, July the 22d, 1860
We attended the protracted meeting at Van Buren, quite a crowd out.
Savage, Chambers and Valentine are the ministers. Had an introduction
to Mrs. Puckett. Good many are joking me about standing up today.

Mon. the 23
Went to preaching again, had a pleasant shower of rain. Mattie C. and I had
a pleasant chat with cousin E.C.C. and feasted high on fruit and melons.

Tuesday July the 24
All the family went to preaching. Mrs. Bailey came home with me. We had a
very pleasant time. Sat up quite late.

Wednesday the 25
Six young ladies left our house this morning with one escort. I went home
with Mrs. Bailey. Sara Rose went with me. We spent a very agreeable time.
Mrs. Sims was sick. I had a chat with Ben Previtt.

Thursday July the 26th
Some appearance of rain this morning and we did not leave Mr. B 's until
evening, the protracted meeting broke up this evening, no converts. Sam
came home with me. Sister Kate came up this eve.

Friday July the 27th
Aunt, Sister and myself spent the day with Ella, went over to her new
house after dinner. Sam went to Saulsbury. We are all very much delighted
with my little namesake. She is such a sweet child.

Saturday July the 28th
Ella spent the day with us. Pa came home. Ma, Pa and all the children were together
today. Sister Kate and children went home.

Sunday the 29th
Sam and I went to preaching at Bethel church, heard an excellent sermon in
the forenoon. Spent the day very agreeably. We had to eat in the church
on account of the rain. Ther.e were four Methodist preachers at church today-formed
several new acquaintances.

Monday the 30th, 1860
Pa & I went back to church, we had a very good meeting. I went home with
Rachel Previtt. We had a pleasant time.

Tuesday the 31st
We had a very refreshing rain last night. Went to church, had a happy time,
three mourners. I had a nice book presented to me by N.B. Price. I had a
conversation with Dr. Bostorch, he is very loquacious. Mr. Lake and Ben
Previtt came home with me.

Wednesday, Aug. the 1st
I went to school. Mr. Richardson came with Miss Rapp. Laura Moore is very
sick, has two physicians with her. I went up to see her in the evening,
saw Miss Ann and Sister.

Thursday the 2d
I finished Aunt's cap. Mr. Lake spent a few hours with us on the way to the
Junction. Lizzie and Mary spent the day with Lucie. I read several chapters
in Cartwright. Went to sit up with Laura Moore. she is some better. A day
long to be remembered.

Friday, Aug. the 3d, 1860
School days again, all in fine spirits. Sophia and I had a long chat. Four
gentlemen spent the evening, two widowers. I begin to think I am of very
little use in a busy world, I am so idle. I must read more, study harder,
the life I am leading does not suit me.

Saturday the 4th
I have been busy all day fixing Lucie's clothes, she went to see S. Ham.
Sam went to Saulsbury. He did not return until late. Pa came home.

Sunday, Aug. the 5th, 60
I read two chapters in Cartwright, did not go to preaching as the weather
was so warm. Ella and Sam spent the day with us. Pa went to preaching.
Aunt is not very well. I read a chapter in the bible and retired.

Nov. the 6th
Had company at school, two new scholars, Bettie Usery (?) and Trude Higgs.
Wiley came with his sister. We had a very jolly time. This is the last
night Aunt will be with us.

Tuesday, Aug. the 7th, 1860
Lucie and Aunt Hobson left for Memphis this morning. We all feel very
lonely. Sam went with them to the station. I have done but very little
work today . I have a good mind to quit writing in my journal and let this
be my last day, it is out of my power to make it interesting at the present.
Not to my journal would I communicate the sacred feelings that I sometimes
have. This is a sad time with us all, the first time Lucie ever went from
home any distance.
Oh Heavenly Father smile on her, protect and guard my little sister, lead
her in the straight and narrow path, forbid she should ever wander far.
Nay she lean upon thine all supporting arm. I know she will find many false
friends, but Oh, Father, may it teach her ever to look to thee for comfort .
God grant that she may make a useful woman, may she be the cause of many
coming to the Lord to seek the pearl of great price. Father in heaven, may
she be a blessing to our gray headed parents-that their last days may be
their happiest.

Wednesday Aug. the 8th
Company at School , Wiley Higgs , I.C.Lake, and P.B. Chairs spent the evening
with the students. Wiley and I had quite a lively conversation to amuse the
crowd. Miss Cynthia Lake and relations came by. We went out to see them,
had an introduction to Mr. Bussie.

Thursday Aug. the 9th
There is to be a grand barbeque at the Junction today. Sam went to Boliver.

Friday Ang. the lOth
Went to school today. Beth M. and I had a jolly time. I sat up quite late,
reading Loorreses' address[4].

Saturday the 11th
I was busy all day helping Ha about domestic affairs. Ella moved to her new
house today.

Sunday Aug. the 12th
Pa went to preaching at Saulsbury, brings tidings of a great revival at
Ripley. I did not go to preaching anywhere, wrote some letters, then
read in The Life of Don. In the evening I went over to see Ella, she is
quite sick. I am very sorry she is sick, hope she will soon recover.
I do hope she and her companion may lead a long, happy and useful life.
I think Ella is endeavoring to lead a Christian life. God grant that
her companion may find the pearl of great price.

Monday Aug. the 13th , 1860
This has been a day that not many of my age and experience would write on.
I am anything else but happy, yet I went to school, and none knew but I
was the happy Laura of the past. Oh, what a task it is when one is so
miserable to mix with the world, and assume gayety, such has been my
task this day. I will try in the future to think less of my troubles
and more of others. I never did think until now that I was selfish.
This is one fault I am going to break myself of. And by so doing I can
be contented and happy. "Teach me to feel another's woe.''

Tuesday the 14th, · 1860
I spent the morning at home, had company, feel better than I did yesterday,
helped Ma cut fruit. Went to practice in the evening.

Wednesday, Aug. the 15th
But four scholars today. I went to Mrs. Chair's. Miss Nannie and I had
a jolly visit. I found Miss Sophie's beau there, Miss Jarret and Mr.
Richardson also. We sat up quite late and had a jolly time talking with
the boys .

Thursday the 16th
Willie R. and P.B.C. went to school with us . Wiley H. came over, he is
not well. I came home early and sewed some before night.

Friday Aug. the 16th, 1860
Bettie Usery came to school today and brought news from Whiteville. J.C.L.
and Wiley Higgs came in this evening. Politics are raging high at school,
the majority are for Douglas. Pa came home this evening. Had a visitor late
this eve.

Sat. Aug. 17th
Went to school in the morning. Mrs. Nannie broke up at noon, came home.
Ella spent the day with us.

Sunday, Aug. the 18th
We went to preaching at Van Buren and a funeral. I gave a gent a nice
bouquet.

Saturday, Aug. the 25
I have not written in my journal for a week. Have not been in the humor
for writing on any subject. Have several letters on hand not answered,
have been at home all the week, did not attend any of the meetings, has
some agreeable visitors, part of the time was spent very pleasantly.
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Sunday, Aug. the 26th
I spent the day with Mollie Rose, had a very agreeable time. Mrs. McDaniel
was there with her pet of the cradle. I spent a very pleasant time in
conversation with Mrs. Wm. Rose who is very entertaining. Had a very
pleasant ride home in company with Mr. Hodlford and lady, who was telling
me about "Cousin Jimmie" says he is wonderfully enamored with a lady about
my age.

Monday, Aug. the 27, 1860
I sewed on my quilt until late in the evening, then went to practice, found
Mrs. Ham quite sick. Pa went to the speaking.

Tuesday, Aug. the 28th
Mrs. Nannie has returned from Jackson, and commenced her school again today.
W. Higgs, J.E. Lake and J.E. Martin visited the school this evening, quite
a jolly time. Mr. Latin (?) sent another piano. I sat up quite late reading
and writing.

Wednesday, Aug. the 29th, 1860
Mr. L. spent the day at school. Ma came over in the evening. We had a
nice time practicing on the new piano. I sat up quite late writing.

Tnursday, Aug. the 30th
I walked to school today, heard the sad news of the death of little Henry
Harris, what a trial for Mrs. H., losing two children in one year. Mrs.
Nannie and Sophia came home with me, we had a very pleasant time.

Friday, Aug. the 31st
The last day of summer and the last day of our music school. Several
visited the school today. We spent the day very pleasantly, in the
evening we had a Valedictory then a farewell song and then separated.
Some of the scholars looked quite sad on the occasion, I came by Mr.
Moore's and bade Hrs. Howard farewell, she will leave this neighborhood
tomorrow. I feel very much wearied.

Saturday, September the 1st
I have been very busy all day sewing on a dress. Mr. L. called to see us.
Ella came over and spent a short time, we went after muscadines, and had
a merry chat.

Sun. Sept. the 2
I remained at home all day, had no company, spent the day reading and
writing. Wrote a letter to Miss Spinks. I read some very interesting
pieces in the Observer[5]. We had a hard shower of rain.

Mon. Sept. the 3rd, 1860
I went to Mrs. Chair's in the evening to bid Mrs. Nannie farewell, she
looks quite serious. I took tea with Mrs. C., we enjoyed ourselves very
well. Mr. Lake came home with me.

Tuesday the 4th
I spent the morning with Ella, in the evening went to see Fannie H.
Mollie Rose and Lizzie Holdford came home with us. We sat up quite late
talking, reading and visiting.

Wednesday September the 5th, 1860
I have been quite busy sewing on my quilt. Mr. L. came over in the evening,
we had a hard rain.

Thursday the 6th
Ella and Mr. L. spent the day with us, we all enjoyed ourselves finely.
Pa, Ma and Ella went to Van late this evening. Mrs. Martin is quite sick.
I have so much sewing to do, but did very little today as I had agreeable
company.

Friday, the 7th, September
Sam went to Saulsbury, brought a letter from Lucie. I have been very busy
sewing. Pa went to Boliver, has not returned.

Saturday, the 8th
Ma is preserving today. I did a little of all kinds of house work. Pa
came home. We sat up quite late, I feel very much wearied.

Sunday, Sept. the 9th, 1860
I went to preaching at Saulsbury, there was quite a crowd out. Parson
Crawford preached. I came by and dined with my old friend Lou Previtt,
we had one of our long chats, so much like other days, it made me think
of the past. I told her of my "bright particular star". George came in,
and we had a lively chat, found company on my arrival home, had a nice
present.

Sept. the 10th, 1860
Ella spent the day with us, she had a great deal of · news. ·Thirty one
years ago today my parents were married.

Tuesday, Sept. the 11th
Ma went to Van and bought my quilt lining and we put in the quilt. Mr.
L. visited us. Pa came from Saulsbury, brought my magazine. Ma and I
had a long chat before I retired.

Wednesday, Sept. the 12th, 1860
Commenced quilting, had company. I did but little quilting. Mr. E.J.
and I talked politics extensively.

Thursday the 13th
I have been very constantly at work all day. No company, read some and
retired.

Friday the 14th
P.B. Chairs, sister and Mrs. Futrell spent the evening with us, we went
after muscadines. Had a jolly time.

Saturday, Sept. the 15th, 1860
We have been quilting all day. Mr. L. called in the evening, nothing
of importance occured.

Sunday the 16th
Raining all the morning. Wrote a letter and read some. My friend and I
read "The Lives of the Three Mrs. Jordons".[6]

Monday, Sept. the 17th
Pa left home this morning. My friend called to see me on his way from
Bolivar. I feel sad tonight.

Tuesday Sept the 18th, 1860
Mr. and Mrs. Ham and Ella spent the evening with us. Mr. H. joked me
about my beau. I read some in Arthur’s magazine.

Wednesday the 19
My particular friend came to see me today, speaks of going to Memphis this
week.

Thursday the 20th
A beautiful moonlight night, Ma and I went over and sat a few hours with
Ella. She and her better half look quite happy and very jolly.

Friday Sept. the 21st, 1860
This has been a long tiresome day with me, sewed hard all day and had no
company.

Sat. Sept the 22d
Sam and Mr. A went to Saulsbury. Ella spent the day with us, we had a very
pleasant time quilting. Pa brought us some apples, muscadines and melons.
Recd a new Godey, read a long story with Ma.

Sunday, Sept. the 23d, 1860
Pa and I went to church at Saulsbury. Dr. Gray preached from the 42 and
12 chapters of Matthew. Saw many of my friends, came home to dinner. Had
a chat with Rob. Black. Wrote some, read a chapter and retired.

Mon. the 24th
Mr. L. spent the day with us. We are most worn out quilting.

Tues. 25
Heard of the death of Mr. William‘s son, read a letter from Lucie. She
is sick. Got my quilt out. Went after muscadines.

Wednesday, Sept. the 26, 1860
I bound my quilt. Ma went to the weavers. Ella came over in the evening.

Thursday, Sept. the 27th
I had company all day. Mssrs. Lake, Higgs and Chairs called in the morning.
Mrs. Lou Previtt and Laura Clark spent the day with us. Miss Mollie Rose
came in the evening and staid all night. Ella came over in the evening.
We spent the day very pleasantly.

Friday, Sept the 28th 1860
Mollie and I spent the day with Ella and helped her quilt, then went on to
Mr. Rose's. Sat up late.

Sat. the 29th
We took the cars at Middleburg and went to Bolivar to a barbeque, had a fine
dinner and good speaking. Gov. Foot and Judge Brown were the speakers. There
is a great deal of excitement about politics. We put up at Black's Tavern.
Remained in town until 9 o'clock.

Sunday, Sept. the 30th, 1860
Went to preaching at Middleburg at the Methodist Church, dined at Capt.
Rose's in company with Mr. Lake and Mr. Harris. Blake Rose came home with
me.

Mon. Oct. the 1st
I have spent this day darning, patching, knitting. Nothing of interest
occured.

Tues. Oct . the 2d
Pa left this morning. I made three towels, had a visitor, spent the day
very pleasantly.

Wednesday Oct. the 3d, 1860
Raining. I made Sam a pair of pants-he went to the P.O.-did not get any
letters, recd two papers while I sewed, Ma read.

Thursday Oct. the 4th
I pieced up a quilt today and ironed after supper, spent but few moments
reading.

Friday the 5th
I made me a velvet belt and altered a dress. Pa came home, saw Aunt Gordon.
I was glad to hear Delight had received her __________.

Saturday, Oct. the 6th, 1860
I spent the day repairing and altering my winter dresses. Am practicing
economy. No letters yet.

Sunday, Oct. the 7th
Mr. Avent and Ella spent the day with us. I have read but very little today,
wrote some. Ella is looking very badly, she has had the chills.

Monday the 8th
Ma and I spent the evening with Mrs. Ham. She gave us some music. I am
reading ''Sinaca[7]".

Tuesday, Oct. the 9th, 1860
Mr. E.L. spent the day with us. In the evening, Mrs. Chairs, Sophia and
and Bogin came over, we had a jolly time for a while joking Sophia about
the ''white horse". After the company left Ma and I went over to see Ella.
Today has passed off quite differently from what I anticipated a month
ago.

Wednesday the 10th
I sewed very constantly today. Bogin and Sophia called a short time this
morning. R.C. says he thinks I'm engaged.

Thursday Oct. the 11th, 1860
Lila is over at Ella's, we are rather lonely. I sat up quite late trying
to finish my handkerchief.

Friday, Oct. the 12th
Early this morning I completed my handkerchief, finished Pa's pants and done
some patching .

Sat. the 13th
Pa, Ma and myself went to preaching at Saulsbury. Mr. Thomson preached in
the morning and Dr. Gray in the evening . We done our shopping after preaching.
Recd our first frost last night -very cold.

Sunday, Oct . 14th, 1860
Went to church again today, a large crowd out. Mr. Thomson preached the
forenoon sermon, the sacrament was administered. In the evening Dr. Gray
preached an excellent sermon, there appeared to be a great deal of feeling
in the congregation. Saw two new brides, we had a cold drive home, had
company part of the way.

Monday, the 15th
Helped Ma sew on some dresses.

Tuesday, Oct. the 16th, 1860
Ella spent the day with us. I sat up quite late.

Wednesday, Oct. the 17th
We had company, spent the day very pleasantly, sat up late and made a dress.

Thursday the 18th
I made me a bonnet, in the evening I went to Mrs. Chairs, stayed all night.
We talked until twelve o'clock. P.B.C. and W.H.

Friday the 19th
I came by the store, heard some news. Braided a pin cushion.

Saturday, Oct. the 20th, 1860
Miss Jane Nabers called on me this morning, I went home with her, saw Mrs.
Nabers and Mrs. Crisp of Memphis. We spent the day very pleasantly.

Sunday, Oct. the 21st
Ma and I went to church, Mr. Jones preached, Miss Permelia Moore joined the
church, came home, Ma went to Ella' s-I spent the evening reading.

Monday, Oct. the 22d
Hemed my handkerchiefs. Mr. L. called on his way from Boliver and sat until
bedtime.

Tuesday, Oct. the 23d, 1860
I helped Ma sew on Pa's coat. Feel very badly, we went after grapes in the
evening.

Wednesday, Oct. the 24
Douglass is to be in Memphis too, I should like to have gone. Sam went to
Boliver today. Ella spent the day with us. I made my calico dress today with
the exception of the skirt.

Thursday the 25
I have done a hard day's work, I feel the affects, found time to read a
few pages.

Friday, Oct. the 26th, 1860
I have been reading· “The Farm and Fireside[8]" which I find very interesting.
Commenced a pair of stockings.

Saturday, Oct. the 27th
I repaired Lila's dress. Ma and I took a long walk, found some crabs.
Mr. Lake came in the evening, told us about seeing Douglass. Ella came
over.

Sunday, Oct. the 28th
I spent the morning reading. My friend spent the evening with me, we had
a pleasant time reading and talking. A beautiful moonlight night.

Monday, Oct. the 29th, 1860
Ella came over in the morning. I commenced my dress today. A lovely
evening.

Tuesday, Oct. the 30
Mr. Lake came to see me today, we took a walk, gathered grapes and chestnuts,
Mr. L. had a chat with the old folks.

Wednesday, Oct. the 31
Had a very agreeable surprise. Mr. L. came over late this evening with a
message from Miss Cynthia Lake. Raining. We spent the evening pleasantly.

Thursday Nov. the 1st, 1860
Miss Cynthia Lake and Mr.. Spinks are to be married today. Much joy to the
happy pair. I sent Cynthia a bridal present today by my kind friend. Sunshine
and clouds.

Friday the 2d
Mr. Lake and the girls came over this morning fresh from the wedding. I recd
two letters, one from Lucie, the other from Delight, she wrote a very religious
letter. Mary Lake stayed all day.

Saturday Nov. the 3d, 1860
Ella came over this morning, we had. a long chat. I helped Ma sew on the girl's
dresses.

Sunday Nov. the 4th
Mr. L. came over and spent the day with us, we had such a pleasant time,
reading and talking, we took a long walk this evening. Found some nice grapes,
pretty ferns and berrys. Ella and Sam came over and took tea with us. I
wrote four letters after supper.

Mon. Nov. the 5th, 1860
Sam came home from Saulsbury, brought letters and papers. Pa gathered us
a nice parcel of grapes. Ella came over and stayed a short time.

Tuesday, Nov. the 6th
Mr. L. came by on his way to the election. I begin to feel rather serious
on the occasion. I recd the compliments and congratulations of Mrs. McDaniel
and Miss Rose today, would have visited them but I was so very busy. I had
a long and pleasant chat with the loved ones at home before I retired.

Wednesday, Nov. the 7th, 1860
Well, this is the last day I am to spend in "singleblessedness", my intended
came by and showed me the documents. Ella spent the day with us, we ate a
nice melon, and had a pleasant talk, I have exerted myself to appear cheerful
today. Mr. L. stayed with me until eight-o'clock, and appeared in fine
spirits. Cynthia has left, I would have been so glad if she could have remained
until after our marriage, am sorry I could not see her before she left.
Pa went to La Grange today, heard from Delight, wish she was here.

Thursday, Nov. the 8th, 1860
Why should I record the events of this day, are they not engraven on the
tablets of my heart in characters that can never be erased? Today I took
the solemn vow of matrimony, and promised to "love, honor and obey". The
marriage ceremony was performed by our much beloved pastor Dr. Gray. God
grant that I may make a loving wife and an affectionate and devoted Mother,
oh, heavenly Father, give me grace and wisdom from on high that I may
perform all the duties incumbent upon me to thy honor and glory.

Friday, Nov. the 9th, 1860
Finds me at my new home with the companion of my choice and his dear children.
I can scarcely realize that I have left the home of my dear parents to share ·
the pleasure as well as the trials of a mother, but I am in hopes it is for
the good of all concerned. I felt a little sad when all of our friends left,
though I can write of a truth "a happy bride". The girls went back to
school in the evening. The weather has been disagreeable for three or four
days but the sun shone out beautifully this evening.

Saturday, Nov. the 10th, 1860
My better half went to Saulsbury and did not return until late. I busied
myself with domestic affairs.

Sunday, Nov. the 11th, 1860
We went to preaching at Saulsbury, heard an excellent sermon by Dr. Gray,
text, Deut. 32-47. Saw many of my friends and acquaintances. Lizzie and
Mary were out. Pa came by and dined with us, spent a pleasant evening.

Monday, Nov . the 12th
I spent the day with Ma. Mr. Lake went to Saulsbury and came by for me
in the evening. Mrs. Anderson spent the day with Ma also, made three towels.

Tuesday, Nov. the 13th, 1860
I went out in the cotton patch in company with Mr. Lake, picked out some
cotton, had a pleasant walk home, my first walk in that direction.

Wednesday, Nov. the 14th, 1860
Went over to Pa's this morning and returned by nine o'clock. Spent most
of the day in domestic affairs.

Thursday the 15th
Mr. Lake, Frank, Joe and myself went out to Hickory Valley in search of
hickory nuts, found plenty, had a delightful time. Ma spend the evening with me.
Ella and Sam sat until bedtime.

Friday, Nov. the 16th, 1860
Raining, and I had enough company. I have been busy today. Nothing of
interest occured today.

Saturday, Nov. the 17th, 1860
I did a little of all kinds of housework. Mr. Lake went to Saulsbury and
gave me a joyful surprise by coming home early, brought papers and books.
Bought me a pair of shoes. We read a story together, had a pleasant chat
and retired.

Sunday, Nov. the 18th, 1860
We went to church at Van Buren. Parson Jones preached. Margaret Harris and
her brothers came home with us, we spent the evening very agreeably.